What it would look like for us to be more balanced.

Service:

1.	Conspire together to love people

2.	Use special gifts/interests of group members

a.	Such as health education

3.	Greeting people, not hiding the good stuff you have

4.	Ministry involvement in community

a.	Music, art

5.	Share caring

6.	Involve others in group leadership

7.	Prayer groups

8.	Be available for each other during the week

9.	Serving each other at our meals

10.	Bringing food

11.	Group service project

Worship:

1.	People come 'cause they want to

2.	People respecting each others' spiritual experience promotes the worship experience

3.	Genuine enthusiasm

4.	Christ-centeredness

5.	Atmosphere of grace/acceptance

Perceiving:

1.	People are excited about what they see in scripture and are vocal about it

2.	People listen and hear and build on each others' insights

3.	Insights are applied, people hold each other accountable

4.	Testimonies are shared

5.	Peoples' gifts are used in the group

6.	Clear insight supports balance in the other 3 areas

7.	Smaller groups get together during the week to share more and pray.

Authentic Relationships:

1.	People are honest and open

2.	They confront in love

3.	They are aware of others' needs and feelings

4.	They spend time on purpose deepening friendships

5.	They are accountable to each other

6.	They encourage each other in ministry and growth

7.	They pray and worship together

8.	There's an uplifting spirit

9.	They have fun and laugh

10.	They listen to each other

11.	They go on outings together

12.	They show commitment to the group beyond what they're getting out of it personally.

13.	There's confidentiality when people share

14.	People pray for each other

15.	There's teamwork

16.	People share common goals and direction